How to Write a Heartfelt Thank You Card

In today’s fast-paced digital world, teaching our children the importance of gratitude and the timeless tradition of writing a heartfelt thank you card is a valuable lesson.

Whether it’s for birthday gifts, holiday presents, or acts of kindness, expressing gratitude through a handwritten note fosters appreciation and thoughtfulness in children.

Why Thank You Cards Are Important

Not only do thank you cards help develop writing skills but they also help build relationships and foster gratitude.

1. Develop Writing Skills: Writing thank you cards helps children enhance their writing, spelling, and grammar skills.
2. Build Relationships: Thank you notes teach children how to acknowledge and value relationships, strengthening social and emotional intelligence.
3. Foster Gratitude: Thank you cards encourage children to reflect on the kindness they’ve received, teaching them to appreciate the thought and effort behind gifts or acts of kindness.

Step-by-Step Guide to Writing a Heartfelt Thank You Card

1. Gather Supplies

Start by collecting the necessary supplies:

• Blank cards or plain cardstock
• Pens, markers, or colored pencils
• Stamps (if mailing)
• Stickers or other decorations (optional)

2. Address the Recipient

Begin with a warm greeting. For example:

• “Dear Grandma and Grandpa,”
• “Hi, Aunt Sue and Uncle Peter,”

3. Express Gratitude

Encourage your child to express their gratitude sincerely. They can start with phrases like:

• “Thank you so much for the …”
• “I appreciate your …”
• “I’m so grateful for …”

4. Be Specific

Help your child be specific about what they are thankful for. Instead of a generic ” thank you for the gift,”encourage them to say:

• “I love the new art supplies you gave me.”
• “The book you gave me is my new favorite!”
• “The cookies you baked were delicious.”
• “I used the money you gave me to purchase a new book.”
• “I am so thankful you helped me with my math homework last week. I aced my test thanks to your help.”

5. Talk About How it Makes Them Feel

Ask your child to share their feelings about the gift or gesture:

• “It made me so happy to receive …”
• “I felt really special when you …”
• “I can’t wait to use/play with/enjoy …”

6. Look to the Future

Encourage your child to express their future plans:

• “I can’t wait to use the art supplies for my next masterpiece.”
• “I am so excited to read the book together.”
• “Let’s bake bread together soon!”

7. Closing Words

End the thank you note with warm regards. For example:

• “Thank you again!”
• “”With love,””
• “Best wishes,”

8. Personal Touch (Optional)

Encourage your child to decorate the card to make it uniquely theirs. Allow your child to add a personal touch to their card such as a drawing or a few stickers. Seed packets, a photo, or even a handmade coupon for a small act of kindness also make fun additions!

9. Sign the Card

Have your child sign their name at the bottom of the card.

10. Deliver or Mail

Help your child address and mail the card or deliver it personally if possible.

To help you out, I’ve created a simple 30 Day Gratitude Challenge Printable. Each person in your family should have their own printable. At dinner time or bedtime, let your kids write what they are thankful for that day. There is enough space on the printable to let your kids write what they are thankful for that day.

Younger kids can use the printable with prompts for each day. Even preschoolers can take on the challenge with the thank you prompts on the printable. Actually, I’m sending a copy to my daughter who has a 3-year old. The prompts are a simple way to stay focused on thankfulness all of November.

For, older kids and parents, I suggest writing at least 3 things you are thankful for each day. Once you sign up, you’ll receive an email with specific ideas for older kids.

Be sure to check back here (or sign up for our email updatesat the top of this post) throughout November for lots of great ideas to help you teach gratitude to your kids. For now, take the 30 Day Gratitude Challenge and get your free printables below.

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